We recently planted trees at the new home.  I’ve been like a mother hen worrying about the trees.  I’ve meters for checking water content and stakes to hold the trees against the wind.  Homes on the western prairie don’t get the winds we get along my street.  Tree worries have kept me awake every windy night this fall.

Trees are the most obvious signs of fall.  Sure the little rose bush, left by the previous owner, has lost it’s pedals.  But, we all look to the trees.  When they change color the “season of death” is here.

The tree, though, isn’t dead.  It’s sleeping.  In climates MUCH warmer than our Indiana the trees will still go into a dormant phase.  A time to rest and regenerate for the coming year.  That old crabapple like that old “crabby apple” needs a few months of rest.

Fall reminds us of our own changing seasons.  We need spring in our life for renewal, summer for growth, fall for change, and winter to really rest.  If the trees were always different colors we’d hardly notice.  If leaves didn’t fall, what would small children jump into.  If season’s didn’t change we’d not have a reference to the past.

I’ve enjoyed this fall in the country.  Winter is nearly hear, but that’s ok.  It’s just one of life’s “seasons” and my favorite.

Twenty-one years ago today I started covering elections.  As a scared Ball State student I put on my blazer, one good pair of tan pants, and a thin tie.  My boss, a wise sage in his 20’s, was John Althardt.  He explained how to cover a headquarters, what questions to ask, and when to call in breaks.  This was before cell phones, so we’d race from the headquarters to the nearest pay phone.  A pocket full of quarters was standard-issue.

Twenty-one years ago this night people I was looking to “old pros” for answers.  Now, we have a young staff who look toward me for answers.  I pass the same advice on that was once given to me, “have fun, and talk to candidates…paint pictures with words.”

Some of the folks I interviewed those years ago have passed away and some have dropped from public service.  Some have moved up, others have remained.

In this moment of calm before the election night storm, I can’t help but think all the candidates have something in common.  They all wanted to help their community.  I think voters are able to spot a phony…even if it takes a few elections.

So, before we begin election night coverage on WHBU, I’d like to wish all the candidates a good evening.  I’m proud of our crew, our station, and most importantly of America.  We have a lot to be thankful for this evening.  Democracy works.

It’s that easy.  Pick up a sign, register your name and address, and if your name is chosen, and if your sign in in the yard…you’ll win.  If the sign is gone, stolen, or you forgot to put it out….we’ll chose another name.

Pick up your sign today at WHBU!

In discussions of a new home there were several “musts,” which although small were pretty important to us.  No, I’m not talking about HGTV kinda things with granite counter tops and views of the ocean.  Angie wanted a home with an attached garage and i wanted a storage barn, either existing or room for one.

The new house has the room, but no barn.  After several months of researching, we’ve picked the company, the design, and place in the yard.  We’ve decided on the color, how many windows, and if the roof should have black or “Estate Grey” shingles.  The barn has to fit with the existing home, have shingles which will match a planned new home roof in 5-8 years, and fit building codes for the neighborhood.

We’ve decided on the barn, but won’t buy it…yet.  It’s the economy.

The economy, I believe, is as much psychological as it is real.  You can put your hands on the great new cars made in Detroit, Japan, or Korea…but, it’s the psychology that makes you buy one.  How many 50-something’s NEED a Corvette?  Probably none…but, it makes them feel good….either younger, thinner, richer, or with flowing wavy hair.

Consumer confidence is the belief that things will be “ok.”  That we’ll all have jobs next week, the banks will stay open, and the next president will ‘know what to do.”  It’s when that faith is shaken we begin to get worried.

Everyone has parents who had disagreements.  I can remember the few times my parents would argue and you’d have the feeling of insecurity.  There wasn’t anything you could DO about it and it wasn’t your fault…but, it still made you feel worried and a bit alone.

There really isn’t anything I can DO as an individual about the economy.  Like a parent’s argument, it’s really out of my hands.  At some point, late that night, one or both of them will come into my room and tell me ‘it’s ok.”  Things will feel secure again.

With the economy, at some point, someone in an expensive suit will be on television saying, “it’s ok.”  And we’ll all feel secure again.  Until then, I’m going to have a really crowded garage.

Everyone has stress.  Recently, “Castaway” was on television.  It’s a film I’d enjoyed years ago, so armed with popcorn, I plunked down to watch it again.  For many life on a desert island would be ideal, but after a few minutes I realized…it would be too stressful for me.  My world requires a dentist…

Life isn’t without stress.  Monks living on mountains, people in cities, farmers, supermodels, and everyone else has stress.  But, like so many things in life it’s not about what happens, but how you deal with it.  In the space of the last paragraph my phone rang 3 times and two people stopped into the office.  The challenge in those situations is to have capital in your “de-stresser bank.”  In times like a moment ago, make a small withdraw, and move on.

Too many people, I think, don’t make deposits into their “bank.”  I have friends, relatives, and even co-workers, who don’t take time to relax.  I don’t mean the giant mega-vacations, but just a couple of minutes each day to appreciate the day.

This morning, for example, the sky was amazing.  About 5:15 the moon was full up, huge in the sky, clouds forming a bit of perspective, and the air was a little crisp.  I just stood there, for a moment, and enjoyed the morning.  10-minutes ago, I took a breath, and remembered that moment…

Stress can and will kill you.  The suicide  and heart attack rates are higher on Sunday nights and Monday mornings.  Why?  What is it about those days that cause problems?  It’s the pending work week.  The thought of dread that another one is coming.

Make deposits into your “de-stresser bank.”  I’ve included a link to the complete list of 101 ways to cope with stress.  There are LOTS of copies out there, but I chose the link from the hawaii education folks…even their link looks relaxing.

http://honolulu.hawaii.edu/intranet/committees/FacDevCom/guidebk/teachtip/101ways.htm

It the link doesn’t work, just copy it into your address bar on your browser.  Trust me, it’s not worth getting “stressed” over.

Things are starting to pile up, and it’s back to the hectic part of my day.  A red light on my phone is blinking, saying messages are waiting; the secretary keeps peaking into the office holding papers; and my e-mail probably has an ‘urgent’ message or two.  But, for the last 20 minutes I’ve relaxed by writing a blog, which I enjoy, with my feet on the desk.  Find little moments to make deposits into your “bank” each day.

A prime example of judging a person by his landscape is the old analogy about which home contains a gun.  A person is standing on the curb, deciding which home to rob.  One home has a well kept lawn, small windmill turning in the garden, and little flowers in pots on the porch.  Decorating the lawn are two little wooden cutouts that resemble people bent over in the yard.

The second home, right next door, has tall grass that needs mowed.  A chain hangs from a tree in the front yard holding an oily engine.  The ground underneath is stained black.  A weathered doghouse stands off to one side with a worn dish beside it.  Through the dirty front windows you see a Confederate flag being used as a drape.

Which house has the gun?

We also judge people by appearance or their own “personal landscape.”  I remember interviewing someone for a job here at the radio station.  The job wasn’t for president of the company or anything, but it was still a first step into broadcasting.  He was in flip-flops and cutoff jeans.  He was in his 30’s and needed a shave.  Radio is an entertainment industry so I thought, “maybe this guy is really creative and thinks outside the box.”  Nope.  He wasn’t creative…he was lazy.

The person I hired at the time has been with us for years and brought enthusiasm and dependability to the job.  He did the most with what he had to work with.  You can train anyone, I believe, if they have the desire to work.

Landscapes are funny things.  We are hiring some landscaping folks to put in trees and make our home look a bit more “kept.”  People also hire consultants to advise them on their personal landscape.  The challenge, I believe, is not being something you’re not.  If we spent $50,000 and put in a waterfall, imported boulders, and a giant train…it would be interesting, but not us.  A well kept lawn, not Disneyland, is more our style.  Same thing in “personal landscape.”  I have three suits, but usually wear “dress casual” with a nice shirt, slacks, and dress shoes.  I’d rather have an Italian Pizza than an Italian suit.

I think the trick in your ‘landscape’ is to be honest with yourself and be sincere.  Sincerity.  Once you can fake THAT, you’ve got it made.

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Vacations have changed a LOT since ancient times.  It’s hard to imagine the Caesar family loading up the chariot with a tent, firewood, water, and playing cards.  The kids, asking in Latin, “are we there yet?”  Just hard to picture.  Did they even TAKE vacations, then?  I have a Ball State history degree, but I must have skipped that day.

It seems that we really take too much on vacation.  At one point I had the laptop in the daunting “vacation pile” for the trip.  I guess I thought they would have WiFi access in the hills of West Virginia.  Then I realized that it wouldn’t really BE a vacation if I was doing station paperwork at the campsite.  So…I left it.

I think the laptop was the ONLY thing we left behind.  If Angie and I are blessed with children they will be required to ride on the roof.  Don’t panic.  They will be strapped into car seats.  Hey, I’ll be a good dad.  Fresh air is good for them.

Camping is probably one of my favorite summer activities.  I’m blessed because my wife also enjoys the outdoors.  The challenge, though, is preparing for the unknown.  The biggest unknown , probably, is the campsite.

If you’re going to stay at the Holiday Inn, you have a pretty good idea of what to expect.  Same can be said for the Hilton, Marriott, or Motel 6.  You’ll have a room, bed, color TV, annoying heat/AC unit.  The motel rooms will be, mostly, identical.  Hilton rooms will probably all be bigger…but, uniform.  Camping is a complete crap shoot.

Within any given campground there are huge sites, small sites, shaded sites, full sun sites, gravel sites, dirt sites, and grassy sites.  There are sites on hills, near the bathrooms, far from the bathrooms, and those with and without electricity.  You have to prepare for ALL these sites.  Suppose the Holiday Inn motel room would be without towels, but have a t-v?  Maybe there is a bed, but no sheets.  You have pillow cases, but no pillows.  AND you wouldn’t know until you arrived which combination you either had or lacked.

We have packed, for 2 years, a little covered awning thing in case we’re ever at a “full sun” site.  Those sites lack ANY trees and are, basically, like camping in a parking lot with grass.  We’ve never needed the awning.  It’s still packed in the original box.  BUT, the day I leave it home….we’ll get a site that makes the desert seem cool and comfortable.

This vacation I also fell into the trap of a modern, cocky, human.  “I’m superior to nature.”  Sure.  My battle was with a raccoon.  I’ll tell the story quickly, because his size seems to grow with each telling…but, he was huge.  About 2am heard a crunching sound.  Yup, he was in the new “camp kitchen” received as a gift this spring.  I put the food into the truck…and went back to bed.  Secure in the knowledge that he couldn’t possibly open a latched cooler.  5am…and he was in the cooler eating our hamburger.  I like nature close, just not eating MY food.

It was good to leave…and good to get back.  The pictures are downloaded onto the computer and I’m through all the e-mails.  There is one question I have, though.  You drive hundreds of miles sitting behind the wheel.  WHY do we all rush into the house and sit down?  I tried standing, but it just didn’t seem the same…  Maybe after the NEXT vacation.

We’re all faced with “the Joneses.”  I once worked for someone who, by my measure, was very wealthy.  He made a fortune as a lawyer, held well paying seats on boards, and took lavish vacations.  He considered himself “poor,” however, because his friend was Jim Irsay.  Yes, the guy who owns the Indianapolis Colts.  Jim’s home was amazing, with a compound housing a huge building for entertaining 500+ of his closest friends.  I felt poor because my boss had so much, he felt poor because Irsay had so much.  Maybe Irsay felt rich, but I doubt it. 

Mike Symmes, by all measure, was a nice guy.  He went to Ball State, owned a business, raised a family.  He fell into a trap waiting for any one of us.  Many people misquote and say “money is the root of all evil.”  The actual quote is “the LOVE of money is the root of all evil.”  It’s that love that can warp even good people into doing bad things.

There is a life lesson here.  America has some of the greatest “toys” on the planet.  With cool phones, great cars, and amazing computers.  We have access to interesting vacation spots, fun experiences, and unique joys.  But, they all come at a cost.  My folks have a little sign in their home.  It says, “Happiness isn’t having everything you want…but, being happy with everything you have.”

The death of Mike Symmes is sad for so many reasons.  The wife, children, and grandchildren he leaves behind.  The stain of suicide.  The financial victims.  Most tragic, though, is this death and case didn’t have to happen.  The American dream image he tried to create became a nightmare.

With the recent move we’ve been deciding what goes and what stays.  In a cosmic trick of fate, we had just 7 days to vacate our old home and move into the new.  The temptation was to use a bulldozer and just shove everything into the moving truck to be sorted later.

The one item I wanted to keep and bring with me was the time machine.  It has sat moldering in the garage for 8 years.  Before that it had been stored at my parents house.  There just didn’t didn’t seem to be a place for it, but I was determined to bring it into the new home. 

With the exception of an outer cleaning, the machine was packed as it was onto the trailer and hauled to the new house.  Another cleaning and a few cuss words and it was carried into the home to be placed in the den, by a window.

Today, being Sunday, I decided to take a trip back to the 1970’s.  Elvis was alive, kinda…Happy Days was on TV, and my folks bought me the machine.  They were auction hounds in those days so I don’t remember who owned the machine first.  My guess is that some craftsman built it in the 1930’s. 

I sat at the machine today and began to explore the past.  My journey included things I’d forgotten from those days.  Images of my first Pinewood Derby race in Cub Scouts, the Homecoming Dance, and a Ball State acceptance letter. 

There were things I’d forgotten like the nameplate from a Gremlin or a pocket knife given to me when my Uncle Harold died.  I’d ruined the blade using the sharpener behind a can opener and tucked it away. 

The journey through time was surprising.  It ended in the 1980’s when I was at an Associated Press convention in Indianapolis.  For some reason I’d saved my name badge and placed it inside the time machine.  22 Years later on a sunny Sunday afternoon I found it again.

I’m writing today’s blog on the desk that contained a lot of hopes for a kid.  Some of them didn’t come true, but many of them did.  When this desk sat in the corner of my old bedroom I’d have never imagined working in radio, counting as friends people I admired then, and being married to a wonderful woman. 

I can’t take long trips in the machine again.  Some of the things are now in the trash outside.  However, I saved enough things to take a little journey every once in a while.  Starting today, I’ll put a few things into the desk…so a 60+ year old Leland can take a trip or two back to 2008.